One of my friends even called me disgusting and said he didn’t believe I would stoop to such a level of desperation.
Now a lot of my friends have judged me in the past for going to such places. Like seriously, I’ve met some fun guys, all in a dirty grimy yucky bathhouse, and all with a good laugh.
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I’ve met some amazing tour guides in Australia, made a couple of friends across the US who I am still in contact with, met a lovely artist in London and discussed HIV and art amongst other things, met an amazing flight attendant who hopefully one day will upgrade me to first class from Copenhagen. I mean come on, a bunch of men are walking around a place in a towel, looking so serious, saying “Hey” at the most, and then walking in silence to another room where no talking is done at all (moaning and dirty talk is not a conversation).īut seriously, if you actually talk to one another, you meet some amazing people. Yeah it’s fun to get my horn on but at the same time, it’s a great way to meet people and to laugh at the inherently hilarious situation you are facing. That’s the thing about these places, I find them hilarious. showered up, laughed some more, and talked in the hot tub. It was hilarious, and really broke the super intense gay sexual tension.Īfter that, we all headed out. Typical gay sauna scene right? And then my friend did the best thing ever, he just looked over and said, “Wait, are you all gay?” And everyone laughed. Another guy was touching the leg of a different guy. On this night, me and my friend found a small group in the sauna. And of course there’s the fun spa stuff like hot tubs and pools and saunas and steam rooms (just to open up your pores and relax).
I mean bad porn is playing on every TV, there’s a dungeon, a random barrel or two (seriously what’s with the barrels?!) and men (if present) creeping around running into the same people over and over until they find something they think is to their liking. Now bathhouses are hilarious, especially when they’re empty. So for the first 15 minutes or so, literally we just walked around the place in our towels and were expecting so many displays of debauchery….but alas it was a Sunday night and the place was pretty much empty. And neither of us really wanted to do anything, but we were just very very curious of what actually went on. Now we kinda went as a joke, Both of us had seen each other naked so there were no qualms there. I just said, “Hey have you ever been to a bathhouse?” and my friend responded, “Nope,” and I said,”Would you like to?” and he said, “Sure!” (amazing story right?) The first time I went to a bathhouse was with a very close friend of mine after a night of (heavy) drinking. Yup, I’d be considered one of the dirty bathhouse goers in four different countries, and you know what? I’m not ashamed. And so far I’ve had quite a lot of fun, all over the world, in four different countries to be exact. All in this year actually, I decided I’d be brave enough to go out and try it, just for fun. It may make you breathe a huge sigh of relief, because there's a good chance that your awkward moments will have nothing on these.So I’ve been to bathhouses. We've got poop, we've got vomit, and we've got dogs making appearances in places you would never want to see dogs. I thought that the worst that would happen is that someone would walk in on you or you'd call someone the wrong name. People opened up with their most awkward sexual stories and, guys, it's way worse than I thought it could ever be. And that's exactly what this AskReddit thread shows. That's the real intimacy of the situation.īut sometimes, the awkwardness is just beyond. I've straight up fallen off of the bed and managed to accidentally knee my partner in some very painful places, but we just ended up in fits of laughter. Somebody slips or farts or makes a weird noise - and you learn to just laugh it up. Sure it can feel very serious and in the moment, but things go wrong all the time.
In a way, that's what's so great about sex. There can be plenty of awkward moments during sex.